1.  Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk

2.   When you lose, don’t lose the lesson

3.  Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroked of luck

4.  Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly

5.   Follow the 3 Rs

- Respect for self

- Respect for others

-Responsibility for all your actions

6.  Don’t let a little dispute injure a great firendship

7.  When you realise you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it

8.  Spend some time alone every day

9.  Open your arms to change, but dont let go of your values

10.  Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer

11.  Live a good, honorable life, then when you get older and think back , youll be able to enjoy it a 2nd time

12. a loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life

13.  In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation, dont bring up the past

14.  Share your knowledge.  Its a way to achieve immortality.

15.  Be gentle with the earth

16.  Once a year, go someplace youve never been before

17.  Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.

18.  judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

19.  approach love and cooking with reckless abandon